Without a doubt, most women would want an unforgettable wedding day as it is a milestone in our life. The bride wants to feel that she is the most beautiful and sexy women during that day. That is why efforts and money are invested for this time of her life.
However, just two weeks I have learned that not all thinks that way. When my friend and I met, we were able to talk about our plans and our life. As you can see, this friend of mine doesn’t want to celebrate her wedding day. No one is invited, not even me. No wedding invitations, no entourage, no gowns and all those stuff. And, it shocks me to death. Well, that is her decision and I have nothing against it. I am just curious about her reasons for that thought.
The explanation is simple; she is just a bride on a budget, correction a bride to be on a budget. I have known lots of couples who are facing budget difficulties, but were able to pull through an unforgettable wedding. And they did not break their savings account for their wedding.
I told her a wedding doesn’t have to be luxurious and expensive. There are so many cheap wedding invitations, gowns and so much more. All she needs to do is to look for it. I can even recommend a site that called brideandgroomdirect that offer affordable wedding invitations to start with. And if she wants I can help her for the preparations. Of course, out of respect I did not say anything.
But, I am trying to tell her that a wedding is a once in a lifetime experience. We don’t have divorce and annulment will take about three or more years before it is settled. That is a long period of time and couples can still mend their differences and problems. Still, it’s her decision that will be followed. I just hope that she will not regret it in the future as she always does for her wrong decisions.
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